The One Real Secret You Actually Need...
Out of all the secrets of secrets, this is the actual secret.
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Here’s a secret I learned from interviewing hundreds of leaders around the world and living my own life and trying my best every day…⠀
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Most truly “successful” people you know or don’t aren’t successful by nature.
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They broke their nature. They battle their inner demons daily.
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They motivate themselves when they wake up unmotivated, just like you.
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They rip their comfort zone to pieces daily even though it’s scary but they feel the fear but do it anyway. They fight to be great.⠀
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Usually decades later…
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What emerged was the person you see today.⠀
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The battle happens inside. Nobody sees the process. Don’t be fooled by the outer layers & results.⠀
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Recognize that every successful person has to constantly break their nature to become who they are in their true nature.
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So, don’t excuse yourself from achieving your version of success.⠀
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Stop looking at the achievements of others and start looking at your own nature.
Successful people still face pain, problems, and struggles. They just teach themselves how to deal with them better as they occur each time.
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Next time you catch yourself comparing who you are negatively, stop, take a breath, and ask yourself:⠀
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1. Is it really true that this person is perfect and flawless? ⠀
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2. Am I just seeing the 10% outside layer?⠀
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3. What information is my mind trying to tell me by comparing myself to others? ⠀
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4. Is there anything I can learn about this experience? ⠀
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I hope this was helpful :) ⠀
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